Systemic Parenting

Parenting can be one of the most rewarding of all human experiences. The joy and satisfaction that comes from parenting well are almost indescribable. Parenting well is also one of the most demanding and challenging activities anybody will ever experience. Unfortunately, children do not come with instruction manuals. Parents must rely upon natural instincts and their own life experiences when deciding how to introduce the world and all of its complexities to their children. The idea of a "how to" manual for parenting, complete with a few easy to follow steps, ultimate solutions, and specific directions-although a desirable notion-is impractical. Most parents realize that the parent-child relationship can be complex, dynamic, and influenced by factors that are unique to their own family circumstances. Attempts to oversimplify this relationship are rarely helpful.