I Am Unfinished: Overcoming the Trap of Misidentity

YOU ARE NOT BEHIND. YOU ARE NOT BROKEN. YOU ARE NOT LATE. You are unfinished. And that is not your flaw - it is your design. You behave your concept of identity. Your lenses - how you see the world - and your experience - how you sense the world - mean that success, relationships, and happiness all hinge on your sense of who you are. Identity is not a background detail. It is central to living a life of true freedom. Most people are not living their real lives. They are living the version of themselves someone else wrote - a family role, an inherited story, an old wound, a borrowed ambition, a title that no longer fits. This is the trap of misidentity: a self built from everyone's expectations except your own becoming. I Am Unfinished is a profound and original book about escaping that trap and building a life worthy of the formation already underway inside you. Drawing on psychology, neuroscience, theology, history, leadership, and his own journey from Nigeria to the United Kingdom, Obasanjo Onireti shows that identity is not a fixed monument. It is living infrastructure. Who we become shapes what we build. What we build shapes what others are allowed to become. WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER - Why the myth of 'arriving' is the most dangerous lie in modern life - How inherited identity, shame, and family scripts trap you in someone else's story - Why your shadowed self is not your enemy but your most important teacher - The hidden danger inside success itself - and how to refuse the cage - Why emotional truth, not polished image, builds lasting trust and influence - The rhythm of building, breaking, and beginning again - and how to live it >WHO THIS BOOK IS FOR >Achievement matters - but must never become identity. Failure hurts - but must never become final. >You are not done. And neither is the world you are called to help build.

Pagina's: 402, Paperback, Rekainos Press