Identify Theft

You did not lose yourself all at once.It happened quietly. In the small adjustments you made to keep the peace. In the opinions you stopped sharing. In the moment you realized you needed permission for things that never required permission. In the slow, steady narrowing of your world until the only person left in it was him.This is not a book about recognizing red flags. By the time you are reading this, you already know something is wrong. This is a book about understanding what was done to you, why it worked, why you stayed, and how to get yourself back.Identity theft is the narcissist's most reliable crime. Not loud. Not visible. Not something you can point to and say this is where it happened. It happens in the daily, deliberate erosion of your perception, your preferences, your instincts, and your sense of what you deserve. By the time most people recognize it, the person they were before the relationship feels like someone they used to know.This book names what happened to you. It explains why you stayed. It tells you what it is doing to your body, your mind, and your children. And when you are ready, it shows you how to get out, how to break the bond, how to quiet the loop, and how to reclaim the person who was set aside piece by piece while you were busy surviving.You did not stay because you were weak. You stayed because the system was designed to keep you.Your instincts were right all along. This book is the hearing.

Pagina's: 236, Paperback, Silverwood Press