Not My Daddy Tonight

Not My Daddy Tonight explores what happens when your body is with one person, but your mind is somewhere-or with someone-else.Shelia Hamberlin-Porter aka Sha Ham takes an honest and provocative look at the private fantasies people may experience during intimacy. From former lovers and celebrities to coworkers, strangers, a partner's friend, and other forbidden possibilities, the book examines the complicated boundary between imagination and infidelity.Is fantasizing about someone else cheating? Are these thoughts a normal expression of desire, or can they become an emotional betrayal? Should you reveal your fantasies to your partner-or could honesty create jealousy, insecurity, and lasting damage? When does an occasional fantasy begin interfering with a real relationship?Direct, candid, and thought-provoking, Not My Daddy Tonight explores desire, secrecy, guilt, temptation, communication, and relationship boundaries. It challenges readers to confront an uncomfortable question: When the person in your mind is not the person in your bed, does fantasy remain harmless-or has a line already been crossed?