Stay With Wisdom · Leave When You Must: A Christian's Guide to Marriage

Stay With Wisdom - Leave When You Must: A Christian's Guide to Marriage by Dr. Denise Shaw McKain, Cogitationist, examines abuse in marriage through a biblical and psychological lens. The book challenges interpretations of Scripture that have been used to justify remaining in abusive relationships and emphasizes God's concern for justice, safety, and human dignity.Dr. Shaw McKain explains various forms of abuse, including physical, emotional, sexual, financial, and spiritual abuse, and explores their impact on the body, mind, and spirit. Using the Cogitationist framework, she highlights the importance of holistic healing and recovery.The book addresses the difficult question of whether Christians should stay in or leave abusive marriages, teaching that reconciliation is appropriate only when there is genuine repentance, accountability, lasting change, and safety. When abuse persists, separation or leaving may be necessary.Drawing on the stories of Hagar and Michal, the author illustrates God's care for those who suffer and reminds readers that He sees, hears, and values them. The book concludes with guidance on healing, forgiveness, and restoration, while challenging the Church to become a place of safety and support for abuse survivors.Its central message is that God does not require His children to remain in danger to prove their faithfulness but calls them to walk in wisdom, truth, healing, safety, and freedom.

Pagina's: 125, Paperback, Independently published