the Art of Becoming Good: Miskawayh and Thousand-Year-Old Philosophy Character, Happiness, Soul

There is a version of you that you gave up on somewhere around thirty-five.You know the one. You can still describe him. He is more patient than you managed to become, less quick to say the cutting thing, better at the part of your life you have quietly stopped trying to fix. Somewhere along the way you decided he was a fantasy, and you were sensible about it, and you moved on.A thousand years ago a man in Baghdad decided that was the single most damaging idea a person can hold about himself, and spent sixty years proving it wrong.His name was Miskawayh. He was a librarian and a court secretary, born into a Persian family of no consequence, and he was ruled for years by appetites he was ashamed of. He was not a saint and not a genius, and a man who knew him well wrote him up as small-minded and tight with money. Then he did something almost nobody in the ancient world attempted: he worked out in precise clinical detail how a human character is actually built, tested it on himself first, and wrote down the method.The Art of Becoming Good is the story of that man and that method. It is narrative history, not a self-help book - the courts he served, the emperor he told the truth to, the friend who despised him for thirty years, the night he stood between a mob and one hundred camel-loads of books. And running underneath it, chapter by chapter, the working method he assembled, laid out plainly enough to use.- Find out which of your faults is excess and which is deficiency, because the treatments are opposite- Understand why insight has never once been enough, and what actually moves the needle instead- See why the company you keep four evenings a week is doing more to your character than any resolution you have ever made- Learn the one measurement that keeps people going through the long stretch where nothing appears to be working- Recognise the specific week you will want to quit, before you get to itThis is a book for anyone who has read the philosophy, agreed with all of it, and gone on behaving exactly as before.Miskawayh promises less than most books of this kind and delivers more, because everything in it was tested on a difficult man by the difficult man himself.The person you meant to be is still reachable. Start tonight, with the small thing you already know about.