THE BOY WHO THREW AWAY GOLD: Why We Lose What Matters Without Realising It

"We do not always lose what matters- >There are moments in life that pass without announcement. They do not demand attention, do not declare their importance, and because of that, they are often left where they first appeared-unexamined, unheld, and quietly forgotten. Kofi Abebrese grows up moving easily within the world around him, following what is already clear, trusting what is already shared, and finding comfort in the simple certainty of belonging. When others speak, he listens. When direction forms, he follows. When moments pass, he lets them go. It is a way of living that feels natural, effortless, and undisturbed. But not everything that matters reveals itself clearly. One afternoon, on a quiet stretch of beach, Kofi comes across something different-something subtle, something he cannot yet name. For a brief moment, it rests in his hands. Then, just as quietly, it is gone. What follows is not a sudden loss, nor a life that visibly changes course, but something far more difficult to recognise-the quiet consequences of what is not seen, what is not held, and what is allowed to pass before it can be understood. This book explores: - Why people lose what matters without realising it- How perception is shaped by influence and certainty- The space between what we notice and what we accept- The unseen patterns behind everyday decisions The Boy Who Threw Away Gold is a powerful and reflective parable about perception, influence, and human behaviour. It reveals how easily what matters most can be lost-not because it disappears, but because it is not recognised when it first appears. Ask yourself: What if the most important things you ever held were the ones you never recognised at the time?

Pagina's: 131, Paperback, Independently published