the Degree Was Never Mine: Parents, Pressure, and Search for Purpose

What happens when a graduate hands his father the graduation gown and says: >That moment becomes the heart of this powerful and deeply human book about education, family pressure, identity, purpose, and the search for meaningful living in the modern world. In many societies, especially across Africa, parents sacrifice greatly to educate their children. They want stability, respect, and protection from poverty. But somewhere between guidance and control, many young people quietly lose themselves. Some become successful on paper while feeling emotionally disconnected from their own lives. In The Degree Was Never Mine, John Monyjok Maluth explores: - Why parents push certain careers- The difference between guidance and control- Family pressure and emotional debt- Graduates who feel lost after success- Talents ignored since childhood- The fear of disappointing parents- Education beyond employment- The future of work, family, and meaning- How parents can guide wisely- How students can choose responsibly Written in a clear, thoughtful, and emotionally honest style, this book speaks to students, parents, teachers, church leaders, and anyone wrestling with questions about identity, responsibility, and purpose. This is not a book encouraging rebellion against parents. It is a book encouraging conversation, wisdom, responsibility, and humanity. If you have ever felt trapped between expectations and authenticity, between survival and meaning, or between obedience and self-discovery, this book was written for you. Start reading today and rethink what education is truly meant to produce: not just workers, but integrated human beings.