the Gentleman's Mind Code: Quiet Inner Life, Disciplines of Attention, and a That Serves Long Life

The Gentleman's Mind CodeThe Quiet Inner Life, the Disciplines of Attention, and a Mind That Serves a Long LifeA man drives home on a Friday after an outwardly fine day, and arrives more tired than the work required. His mind has been ruminating, rehearsing, judging, and worrying all the way home, draining a day that was never actually difficult.Most men know this experience. Few have ever been taught what to do about it.The Gentleman's Mind Code is a manual for the ordinary inner life of an adult man. Not therapy. Not pop-stoicism. Not the loud insistence that mastery is available if only the man tries harder. The quieter, slower work of becoming on terms with the mind one actually has.Across fourteen chapters, it sets out the disciplines:The recognition that thoughts are not verdicts - the central move of the entire bookThe two voices most men carry inside them: the working voice, and the harsher commenting voiceAttention as the foundation on which every other discipline restsWorking with anxiety, rumination, and low days without making them worseThe relational mind - in marriage, at work, with friends, and in solitudeThe question of meaning, and the manufactured answers that don't holdThe mind across the decades, and what to do when it crosses into territory that needs qualified helpIt closes with a structured twenty-eight-day programme that turns the reading into practice.This is not a book for men in crisis, and the front matter says so plainly - it is not a substitute for therapy, and a man in genuine difficulty should reach for qualified help, not a book. What it is, is a manual for the man who has noticed his inner life has gone untended, and would like to begin tending it.The settled mind. Built slowly. Available to almost any man willing to do the small, daily, undramatic work.Part of the Gentleman's Code series from Meridian Publishers.

Pagina's: 92, Editie: Large type / Large print, Paperback, Meridian Publishers