THE RULES OF ENGAGEMENT: A Biblical Guide to Finding Love, Building Character and Preparing For Marriage

Relationships are not just about finding the right person-they are also about becoming the right person.In a culture where dating is often driven by attraction, convenience, and fleeting emotions, The Rules of Engagement offers a biblical and practical path toward love, character, discernment, and covenant.Drawing lessons from Ruth, Samson, Isaac, Rebekah, Esther, and other biblical examples, Victor Wafula helps singles, dating couples, parents, pastors, and relationship mentors understand how to approach relationships with wisdom and purpose.Inside, you will discover how to: - Build your identity and character before pursuing a relationship - Recognize godly qualities and important warning signs - Date intentionally rather than casually - Establish healthy emotional, physical, and spiritual boundaries - Communicate honestly and manage conflict constructively - Prepare for engagement, marriage, and covenant commitment - Navigate money, family expectations, disappointment, and healing - Build a relationship centered on ChristWhether you are single, dating, engaged, mentoring others, or preparing for marriage, this book will help you make decisions shaped by biblical truth rather than pressure, fear, or emotion.Your future relationship is shaped by the choices you make today. Choose wisely. Love faithfully. Build a legacy that honors God.