The War That Followed Me Home

This is not a story about heroism.It is a story about what happens after the applause fades, after the retirement ceremony ends, and after a life built on order, mission, and identity abruptly dissolves.For two decades, I lived inside a system that told me who I was, what I was worth, and where I belonged. The Marine Corps gave me structure, brotherhood, and purpose. It also gave me trauma I did not know how to name, process, or survive once the structure was gone.When I retired, I believed I was prepared for civilian life. I was wrong.What followed was a slow, often invisible collapse marked by untreated PTSD, alcohol dependence, marital breakdown, and a series of decisions made while operating far below my best self. Some of those decisions were mine alone. Others were shaped by systems that respond to trauma with procedure rather than understanding.This book is written in hindsight, but not with the comfort of distance. The events recorded here still carry weight. The consequences still exist. The people affected, especially my children, still matter deeply.I am not writing this to seek sympathy. I am writing it to document how quickly things can unravel when warning signs are ignored, when help is inaccessible or inadequate, and when trauma is misunderstood as moral failure.If this book serves any purpose, I hope it is this:To make someone pause before judging, to make someone seek help sooner, or to make someone feel less alone in their own unraveling.This is my story.Not the convenient version.Not the version that fits neatly into legal filings or public narratives.The truth written as faithfully as memory allows.

Pagina's: 642, Editie: Large type / Large print, Paperback, DAB Books Inc