They're Watching: How to Raise the Child You Actually Want

You don't raise a loving child by demanding love. You don't raise an honest child by punishing honesty. And you don't raise a respectful child by being the one person in the house who doesn't have to be respectful.Children are mirrors. What they reflect back isn't who you told them to be - it's who they watched you be.They're Watching is a parenting book built on one uncomfortable truth: the most powerful thing you do as a parent has nothing to do with your rules, your lectures, or your discipline strategies. It has everything to do with your behavior in the ordinary, unguarded moments of an ordinary day.Written by Reinhard Chavez - a high school English language teacher with fourteen years of watching what parenting looks like from the other side of the classroom - this book takes six simple principles and stays with each one honestly, practically, and without softening the parts that are hard to hear.Six chapters. Six principles. One child watching all of it.- Want a loving child? Hug them when they make mistakes.- Want a confident child? Value the effort, not just the outcome.- Want an open child? Listen without judgment.- Want a calm child? Calm yourself first.- Want an honest child? Appreciate their courage to admit mistakes.- Want a respectful child? Be the example.This is not a book about perfect parenting. It's a book about present parenting - the kind that actually shapes who your child becomes. Each chapter includes real-life scenarios, practical tips, and the kind of honesty that most parenting books are too polished to offer.You already know what kind of child you want to raise. This book asks a harder question: Are you showing them how?

Pagina's: 47, Paperback, Independently published