You Never Asked About My Medal: Profiles in Silent Courage

YOU NEVER ASKED ABOUT MY MEDAL Profiles in Silent CourageIn the final days of his life, his body surrendered to Parkinson's, and his mind largely gone, Uncle Seymour surfaced from silence long enough to say one thing to the woman who had shared his life: "You never asked me about my medal."He had crossed the Roer River under fire. He had earned a Bronze Star. And for decades, the medal hung on a wall while the family gathered, talked, ate - and never once thought to ask.That moment haunts this memoir. Not because it is unique, but because it is not.You Never Asked About My Medal is Larry Setren's account of a life spent - sometimes accidentally, sometimes deliberately - in the company of people who performed extraordinary acts in ordinary silence. Growing up in Baltimore in a Jewish family whose very presence in America was an act of survival, Setren was surrounded by quiet heroes from the start: a grandmother who transformed trauma into tenderness, a grandfather whose controlled courage in a moment of danger said everything about who he was, and an Uncle who served heroically and then lived with it in silence.What followed was an education with no fixed address. Studies in France. Teaching in Algeria during the turbulent post-independence years. Working in Iran where he watched many proud people welcome their revolution with open arms--unable to foresee that the theocracy they embraced would imprison them for the next half century, a shadow that stretches to this day. Then back to California - building a house with his own hands, joining Genentech in the early days of the biotech revolution, surviving the 1989 San Francisco Earthquake and then the 1991 Oakland Hills firestorm, and ultimately building a second life from what the ashes left behind.Throughout these decades and across three continents, Setren kept noticing the same thing: the people who shaped him most were rarely the ones making headlines. They were colleagues who chose integrity over convenience. The neighbor who arrived without being asked. The immigrant who showed up every day with quiet grace despite circumstances that would have defeated most. Heroes who never claimed the word.Part coming-of-age story, part adventure across a world now largely vanished, part meditation on what courage actually looks like when no one is watching - this is a memoir about learning to see the remarkable in the people we overlook, including, sometimes, ourselves.

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