Get Out of your Own Way: How to manage the most powerful person in life yourself

The biggest barrier to success and personal fulfilment is the person looking back at you from the mirror as you get ready for the day ahead. The biggest barrier to success and personal fulfilment is the person looking back at you from the mirror as you get ready for the day aheadDoes Alan Hester's insightful statement ring true to you? Have you ever found yourself getting in your own way and not reaching your goals because of your own fear, ego, or lack of confidence?If that's the case, then you need to Get Out of Your Own Way and stop self-sabotaging! In this book, the author will show you how to become your own best adviser, motivator, mentor and friend, and take control of your worst habits:- Stop comparing yourself with more successful people- Stop bemoaning your luck- Stop making bad decisions (or no decisions at all)- Stop thinking you don't deserve successTake control of the events in your life: adjust your response to them, and you'll be the one in control of the outcome. Alan Hester's insightful statement will ring bells with many people. So many of us will regularly and repeatedly stop ourselves from doing what we most want to do. We will get in our own way. We may compare ourselves with more successful people and look for unfair advantages that they have and we don't. We may bemoan our luck or be plagued by any number of common conditions, such as starting something and not finishing it, making bad decisions or no decision at all. We may lack self-belief and think we don't deserve success, that we may be ridiculed or judged, that there is no point in even trying, or feel uncomfortable trying. These are just a few of the ways in which, through fear, ego and lack of confidence, we get in our own way. The author's argument is that although we may not be able to control certain events in our life, we can control our response to those events, and thereby decide the outcome. He has written this book so we can learn how to get out of our own way and become our own best adviser, motivator and friend.